<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378</id><updated>2011-04-22T04:47:21.735+08:00</updated><category term='Myself'/><category term='dealing with difficult people'/><category term='relationship and break up'/><category term='making money'/><category term='Love and relationship'/><category term='over sensitivity'/><category term='Self Confidence'/><category term='motivation and self potential'/><category term='Public Speaking'/><title type='text'>hard life simple mind</title><subtitle type='html'>Life is always hard. Mind is always simple. Most of the articles here tend to help you solving problem in your hard daily life, the labels include love and relationship to dealing with over sensitive person.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>38</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-8707403836566336821</id><published>2009-02-24T22:30:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-02-24T23:19:14.405+08:00</updated><title type='text'>Internet Addiction: Realize it or not?</title><summary type='text'>Internet addiction disorder is relatively a new term that was supported by some parties and criticized by others. The point of the debate was whether internet addiction is really a disorder or just a habit of over using a new technology. However, we don’t really care about who is right, what we care about is letting you know why you overuse the internet and how to get over it.Although we won't </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/8707403836566336821/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=8707403836566336821&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8707403836566336821'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8707403836566336821'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/02/internet-addiction-realize-it-or-not.html' title='Internet Addiction: Realize it or not?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4998506347278206314</id><published>2009-02-03T03:53:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-02-03T04:37:57.008+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (final)</title><summary type='text'>It took me three days to get over the worst  ever and a week to recover fully. In the past,  it used to take me about  one or two months to recover from a breakup.  Nothing has changed in this period of time, I am still the same person, I do still have feelings and my attitude towards relationships is almost the same, the only thing that has changed is my knowledge about relationships.  </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4998506347278206314/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4998506347278206314&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4998506347278206314'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4998506347278206314'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/02/how-to-forget-someone-that-you-really_03.html' title='How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (final)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4333375410284184763</id><published>2009-02-03T02:34:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-02-03T04:37:57.009+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part IV)</title><summary type='text'>I can never forget about him…He was the only one I ever loved that much…I will never love someone else as I loved him…I can never imagine myself being with someone else…Do these phrases sound familiar? Have you been in that situation before?If your answers are yes, then know that you were fooled and that you have been programmed to believe in the idea of “The one”.The Myth of “The One” Most </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4333375410284184763/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4333375410284184763&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4333375410284184763'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4333375410284184763'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/02/how-to-forget-someone-that-you-really.html' title='How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part IV)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-7440313302800563792</id><published>2009-01-22T02:30:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-24T03:33:44.736+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part III)</title><summary type='text'>You were walking down the street, nothing was unusual and then suddenly she came out from a nearby shop and it happened that you fell in love with her at first sight! Huhh!! What happened?!!The answer is simple, its all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not involved in a relationship, your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner, even if you think </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/7440313302800563792/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=7440313302800563792&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7440313302800563792'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7440313302800563792'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/01/how-to-forget-someone-that-you-realy_22.html' title='How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part III)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6495886771153404377</id><published>2009-01-06T04:03:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:08:02.762+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part II)</title><summary type='text'>I'd passed my first day greatly, so here i want to share what i have understood about break up. Just by understanding this i can accept the break up..positively, no more denying, just believe the truth.The following lines will open your eyes to facts that you may not have been aware of before. After you understand them, you will discover that getting dumped may not be that bad at all.What most </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6495886771153404377/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6495886771153404377&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6495886771153404377'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6495886771153404377'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/01/how-to-forget-someone-you-really-love.html' title='How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part II)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4413118573389616905</id><published>2009-01-05T04:47:00.006+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:08:02.762+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part I)</title><summary type='text'>People said, "Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop."But are tears enough to chase away the pain of a break up?Most of us have been there. Some of us are there. And for sure, many of us will be there in the future. When the person you are in love with suddenly leaves you, you may think that your whole identity is shattered, and that you will never recover from the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4413118573389616905/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4413118573389616905&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4413118573389616905'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4413118573389616905'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/01/how-to-forget-someone-that-you-realy.html' title='How To Forget Someone That You Really Love? (part I)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-5498378863013710938</id><published>2009-01-02T05:58:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:08:02.762+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>what was your fault?</title><summary type='text'>I know how it feels when you put high hopes on someone then you get disappointed.I know how painful it is to lose all of your hopes in one second or in single moment.I know how can a relation be to someone before its just lost that way.But do you know why did you get disappointed in such relationship? You got disappointed because you were confident, you got disappointed because you thought that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/5498378863013710938/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=5498378863013710938&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5498378863013710938'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5498378863013710938'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2009/01/what-is-my-fault.html' title='what was your fault?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-2620348831359908423</id><published>2008-12-28T03:45:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:08:38.513+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dealing with difficult people'/><title type='text'>How to deal with a stubborn person</title><summary type='text'>It has been a long time since my last up date, almost 2 months. Actually i always work during my semester holiday but this time because of the world economic crisis may be, it was hard for me to find a job. i just spending most of my times watching TV and reading. Those books that i'd read were very interesting, i will share what i had learned later. Here, i will continue to talk about dealing </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/2620348831359908423/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=2620348831359908423&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2620348831359908423'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2620348831359908423'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/12/how-to-deal-with-stubborn-person.html' title='How to deal with a stubborn person'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-1418695365762914519</id><published>2008-11-14T15:05:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:08:38.513+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dealing with difficult people'/><title type='text'>How to deal with difficult people?</title><summary type='text'>A positive thinker must always see the best in others. If you always see the best in others, you will be happy to work or deal with everyone. Hating people only wasting your energy and make you depressed. Practice this; smile, say hello, call the people with his/her own name, and ask how are they doing today? By doing this simple things, believe me you will happier and energetic, in addition you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/1418695365762914519/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=1418695365762914519&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1418695365762914519'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1418695365762914519'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html' title='How to deal with difficult people?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-2197838965901217979</id><published>2008-11-11T07:23:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-13T18:53:56.509+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Myself'/><title type='text'>Why Hard Life Simple Mind?</title><summary type='text'>I should write this on October 18, when i started this blog. 3 months a go i got a blog titled brain stew(no longer existed) because some technical problem i had in changing it's layout. It was a lost for me because, i got #1 position and appeared in first page in Google Search for my targeted keywords, with the fact that i never knew what SEO is, i only realized it when i deleted the blog. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/2197838965901217979/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=2197838965901217979&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2197838965901217979'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2197838965901217979'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/why-hard-life-simple-mind.html' title='Why Hard Life Simple Mind?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6414862378365946796</id><published>2008-11-10T05:03:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-13T18:54:08.743+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>why do things never work for you?</title><summary type='text'>why you always fail? disappointed? you try very hard but still didn't reach your goal.. well, i just want to share stories of great peoples that learn from their failure to get more..Thomas Edison failed nine hundred ninety nine times before he succeeded  at inventing the lamp. On the 1000th trial!!! When he was asked how he managed to continue trying in spite of failing all those times, he told </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6414862378365946796/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6414862378365946796&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6414862378365946796'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6414862378365946796'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/why-do-things-never-work-for-you.html' title='why do things never work for you?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6191525010621697760</id><published>2008-11-08T04:08:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-09T22:01:21.688+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Self Confidence'/><title type='text'>The Easiest Way To Get Self Confidence</title><summary type='text'>I got this tip from my Email sent by Noel, i publish his story in my previous post. He give me a tip to be more confidence, about self image, and I'm sharing it here, thats what the tips suppose to; help people!Your self-image is the mental blueprint you have ofyourself.This blueprint lays the foundation for where you are goingin life.You won't be able to rise any higher than your self-image,so </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6191525010621697760/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6191525010621697760&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6191525010621697760'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6191525010621697760'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/easiest-way-to-get-self-confidence.html' title='The Easiest Way To Get Self Confidence'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-1433912836690628653</id><published>2008-11-08T03:52:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-09T22:01:21.689+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Self Confidence'/><title type='text'>First Step In Becoming More Confidence</title><summary type='text'>What is the first step should be taken to be more confidence of yourself? I'm not giving any tips in this post, but i want to share a story of Noel, one of my Email pal about the first times he received a huge dose of self-confidence. i believe you will find something in his story.I remember one of the first times I received a huge dose ofself-confidence.I was a shy kid and never raised my hand </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/1433912836690628653/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=1433912836690628653&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1433912836690628653'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1433912836690628653'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/first-step-in-becoming-more-confidence.html' title='First Step In Becoming More Confidence'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-5219420515166795218</id><published>2008-11-07T05:04:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-09T22:01:59.643+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='over sensitivity'/><title type='text'>Dealing With Your Over Sensitive Friend</title><summary type='text'>I have discussed about over sensitive person and how to deal with your own emotional sensitivity. What if, you are not over sensitive but may be your friend, partner, parent or people that important to you are over sensitive? As i told you over sensitive persons are fragile and must ' handle with care', they may not beat you if you not handle them with care( hurt them) this is because most of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/5219420515166795218/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=5219420515166795218&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5219420515166795218'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5219420515166795218'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/dealing-with-your-over-sensitive-friend.html' title='Dealing With Your Over Sensitive Friend'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4079003108396624306</id><published>2008-11-06T06:02:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-11T17:17:45.975+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='over sensitivity'/><title type='text'>Dealing With Your Emotional Sensitivity</title><summary type='text'>How to deal with your emotional sensitivity? If you feel sad because your emotional sensitivity is causing you much pain in your life, you may get relieved to know that it's very easy to use the advantages of being overly sensitive while the same time increating barriers that can diminish the disadvantages of being over sensitive.First of all, do you know that being overly sensitive makes you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4079003108396624306/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4079003108396624306&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4079003108396624306'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4079003108396624306'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/dealing-with-your-emotional-sensitivity.html' title='Dealing With Your Emotional Sensitivity'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3745021712949847276</id><published>2008-11-06T05:36:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-07T03:51:55.455+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='over sensitivity'/><title type='text'>Life Of  An Over Sensitive Person</title><summary type='text'>Over sensitive people are more likely to have bad moods, to get depressed and to be moody because their mode changes whenever any small event happen. An emotionally sensitive person is like a fragile person, or a person who is labeled "handle with care". The biggest problem is that people don't have enough knowledge sometimes to realize that they are dealing with an emotionally sensitive person </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3745021712949847276/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3745021712949847276&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3745021712949847276'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3745021712949847276'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/life-of-over-sensitive-person.html' title='Life Of  An Over Sensitive Person'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6862236137054308651</id><published>2008-11-06T04:38:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-07T03:51:55.455+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='over sensitivity'/><title type='text'>Over Sensitive person</title><summary type='text'>people should know if they are over sensitive type of person, some people that i have known trying to pretend to be tough, but deep inside they are very sensitive emotionally. they got hurt easily, thats the fact. those people that emotionally sensitive have trained themselves, i praised them for that. you know what,  i used to be very sensitive in the past but from time to time I'm getting </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6862236137054308651/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6862236137054308651&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6862236137054308651'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6862236137054308651'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/over-sensitive-person.html' title='Over Sensitive person'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-2008059628633168868</id><published>2008-11-05T06:31:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:10:10.629+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love and relationship'/><title type='text'>Relationship: Openness or Honesty?</title><summary type='text'>In relationships, some people hide small details from their partners just because they didn’t ask them about it, or just because they think that it might not be important to them. Those people think that they are honest and that they are doing nothing wrong but the problem that happens is that they ruin their relationships without noticing that they are doing something wrong.These people </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/2008059628633168868/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=2008059628633168868&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2008059628633168868'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/2008059628633168868'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/relationship-openness-or-honesty.html' title='Relationship: Openness or Honesty?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4005478086529244141</id><published>2008-11-05T01:16:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-09T22:27:41.423+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Self Confidence'/><title type='text'>What Is Self?</title><summary type='text'>What is self?Who are you?What are you about?What are your core values and beliefs?What do you love to think about?Self is who you are inside.You have to understand this self.If you don't understand your Self, how can you have faith inyourself?How will you have direction in your life?If you don't fully understand yourself, there arehundreds...maybe thousands...of messages hammering you eachday </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4005478086529244141/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4005478086529244141&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4005478086529244141'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4005478086529244141'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/what-is-self.html' title='What Is Self?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-7134397106662561878</id><published>2008-11-01T04:48:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:00.409+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>Growing to your Maximum Potential; How?</title><summary type='text'>many people that I've known didn't reach their true potential because they under estimate their own potential, as the result, the accept any decision about their performance as the best that they can do.i have a story about how other people make your life stagnant and do not grow to your maximum potential. this story is for example only; the life of EpoiWhen Epoi was 15, everyone told him that he</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/7134397106662561878/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=7134397106662561878&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7134397106662561878'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7134397106662561878'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/11/growing-to-your-maximum-potential-how.html' title='Growing to your Maximum Potential; How?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6182826691684481355</id><published>2008-10-28T22:09:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:00.409+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>Self Discipline.</title><summary type='text'>What is Self Discipline?  self discipline is controlling your self and mastering your emotions in such a way that you may prevent yourself from doing something that you like for the sake of a future benefit , for example preventing yourself from online or watching Tv in order to have a good result in your exam. self discipline is positive attitude that we must have in order to reach our goals. if</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6182826691684481355/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6182826691684481355&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6182826691684481355'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6182826691684481355'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/self-discipline.html' title='Self Discipline.'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4117982981975983779</id><published>2008-10-28T20:35:00.012+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:00.410+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>Motivation and Goal Setting</title><summary type='text'>people need goal to reach their maximum potential. if you used to read motivation books, you must already known that success is  all about reaching your maximum potential. the fact is, no one can achieve their dreams without setting a specific goals.why would your mind bother to send you motivation signals while it finds that there is no reason for doing so. If you are going to sacrifice some of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4117982981975983779/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4117982981975983779&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4117982981975983779'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4117982981975983779'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/motivation-and-goal-setting.html' title='Motivation and Goal Setting'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-8432013767867411429</id><published>2008-10-22T22:40:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:13:16.165+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Public Speaking'/><title type='text'>why public speaking scares us?</title><summary type='text'>well, tomorrow morning i have a presentation. its been a long time since the last time i spoke to the public, about 6 months ago. to be honest, im not a good public speaker. in fact, speaking in front of public is one of the things that im afraid of. now, im doing law and of course i must have good public speaking skills. although, im bad at it but i have a dream to give a speech to hundreds or </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/8432013767867411429/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=8432013767867411429&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8432013767867411429'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8432013767867411429'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-presentation-scares-us.html' title='why public speaking scares us?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4772265482224539591</id><published>2008-10-20T04:17:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:00.411+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>some tips before final exam</title><summary type='text'>i think all people know this, our life need goals; long term or short term. specifically this post for students that are waitin for their final exam. I believe its  not too late for you to set a goal for your 'comin soon' final exam. if you are an uitm student, you still got about 10 days. anything can happened within this period of time. im goin to share some tips in setting short term goal. it </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4772265482224539591/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4772265482224539591&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4772265482224539591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4772265482224539591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/some-tips-before-final-exam.html' title='some tips before final exam'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-7185743107802511051</id><published>2008-10-18T19:24:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:00.411+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>the deadline: final exam! start study now!</title><summary type='text'>urmm.. time is running out, the clock ticks fast. most of the student at this state of time will stress, arghh! still not study!.. i got too much to study!, i dont even understand a single things! paper for this sem is difficult! im afraid i will fail!etc.. we always listen to such lines every night and day near the final exam. but you know the amazing thing is? most people saying such words </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/7185743107802511051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=7185743107802511051&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7185743107802511051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7185743107802511051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/deadline-final-exam-start-study-now.html' title='the deadline: final exam! start study now!'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3599815255660826448</id><published>2008-10-18T04:08:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:52.020+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='making money'/><title type='text'>Getting Rich Quick, Is it possible?</title><summary type='text'>Whenever I read an article or listen to someone’s opinion about getting rich quick I find the same answer, Getting rich requires lots of hard work and patience. Those people I read their opinion are well known for their wide experience and for their tremendous success with money and that's what made me believe in what they said. Lots of well educated people and lots of successful business men </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3599815255660826448/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3599815255660826448&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3599815255660826448'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3599815255660826448'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/getting-rich-quick-is-it-possible.html' title='Getting Rich Quick, Is it possible?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-1843582822145369779</id><published>2008-10-18T03:48:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:12:52.020+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='making money'/><title type='text'>Making Money from the Internet</title><summary type='text'>Do you want to make more money?Do you want to make money without taking any risks?Do you want to make money from home?Do you want to be rich? I know that you may be thinking that those questions are some kind of a hype but actually they are not, having an online website will provide you with the the Opportunity to start a business with zero risk, to work from home and to become rich if you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/1843582822145369779/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=1843582822145369779&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1843582822145369779'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/1843582822145369779'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/making-money-from-internet.html' title='Making Money from the Internet'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6469400948541574992</id><published>2008-10-18T00:06:00.001+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-24T02:56:30.367+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='motivation and self potential'/><title type='text'>What is Cognitive Behaviour Therapy(CBT)</title><summary type='text'>i found this type of therapy is very easy to apply and it really works for me to recover from break up, for people dont know about this useful therapy, in this article i will explain it brieflyCognitive Behavior Therapy idea is built on the assumption that your emotions are caused by your thoughts in addition to your perception of the external influence and so your behavior will be based upon </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6469400948541574992/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6469400948541574992&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6469400948541574992'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6469400948541574992'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/what-is-cognitive-behaviour-theraoycbt.html' title='What is Cognitive Behaviour Therapy(CBT)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-6639128769803320606</id><published>2008-10-18T00:02:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:10:15.468+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>positive song that motivates you</title><summary type='text'>last article i wrote about song that reminds you about your ex, and your failure at the past that make you feel even worse. i review the lyrics of my 'my immortal' by Evanescence, the negative lyrics that it contains givin you negative messages, and make your break up recovery process stuck and became slower. i also encourage you to listen to songs that will motivates you, give you new hope/</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/6639128769803320606/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=6639128769803320606&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6639128769803320606'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/6639128769803320606'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/positive-song-that-motivates-you.html' title='positive song that motivates you'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3518707562354535464</id><published>2008-10-17T23:56:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:10:15.468+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>Recover From Break Up, An Analysis of the Song "My Immortal"</title><summary type='text'>this article continues from the previous article about recover from a break up. as i mentioned in that article, you should stop listenin to any music that reminds you about him/her. i used to do this untill i realize, listening to negative music would never help me recover.you want to know why?? here  i choose this song to review,to make you understand it more. Personally, “My Immortal”, one of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3518707562354535464/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3518707562354535464&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3518707562354535464'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3518707562354535464'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/recover-from-break-up-analysis-of-song.html' title='Recover From Break Up, An Analysis of the Song &quot;My Immortal&quot;'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-8368082338719876732</id><published>2008-10-17T23:48:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:10:15.468+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>recover from break up: believe the truth</title><summary type='text'>Whether you have really loved someone or wether it was just a light attraction you will be relieved to know that there is a normal process of recovery for breakups,this process can be either very long or very short depending on how do you understand the idea behind the recovery process. Having an understanding of the recovery process can make you recover very fast on just committing to some </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/8368082338719876732/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=8368082338719876732&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8368082338719876732'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/8368082338719876732'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/recover-from-break-up-believe-truth.html' title='recover from break up: believe the truth'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-650470926006284164</id><published>2008-10-17T23:32:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:10:15.468+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>why you cant forget someone?</title><summary type='text'>have you ever been in situation, where you wanted to forget someone but you failed every time you try? the harder you try, the more pictures about him/her come to your mind. you found some other guy/girl, and like him. wish him help you forget your ex. but instead forgettin your ex, you remember him more. you just cant get rid of him. here i explain the reason for it. may be these are not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/650470926006284164/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=650470926006284164&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/650470926006284164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/650470926006284164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-you-cant-forget-someone.html' title='why you cant forget someone?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-4126859748407951666</id><published>2008-10-17T23:02:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2009-01-22T04:10:15.468+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='relationship and break up'/><title type='text'>you are what you are; dont feel bad when rejected</title><summary type='text'>oncer i experienced break up, actually it was not the first time but it was the worst for sure. i felt a great pain inside, before that i was confidence that this would never happen to me. i become moody and keep listening to sad songs that keep reminding me about her. it seemed that i just could not accept what had happened. then i kept online to find tips to take this positively plus reading </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/4126859748407951666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=4126859748407951666&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4126859748407951666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/4126859748407951666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/you-are-what-you-are-dont-feel-bad-when.html' title='you are what you are; dont feel bad when rejected'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3767525021887814351</id><published>2008-10-17T22:55:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:10:10.631+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love and relationship'/><title type='text'>why he pulled back?</title><summary type='text'>in the previous articles i talked about the signs that some show when he likes you, so now i want to giving a reason, why someone that show all the signs make you feel that he likes you the suddenly pulled back? there are many reason behind this... have you ever been in situation as below:Ever since the first time I met him, I felt that he was attracted to me somehow. Although I wasn’t sure of it</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3767525021887814351/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3767525021887814351&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3767525021887814351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3767525021887814351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/why-he-pulled-back.html' title='why he pulled back?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3275643734526525621</id><published>2008-10-17T11:57:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:10:10.631+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love and relationship'/><title type='text'>Love signs! (part II)</title><summary type='text'>this articles continues from the first part of love signals, here more other signals.. red it, then decide whether it is true or not. tell me if you never doing this when  you like someoneIdentifying with the person:Phrases like “Hey, you know what? Your personality is very close to mine”, “Me too!! I adore orange juice” or "Sarah and I both hate physics" are perfect examples of someone who is </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3275643734526525621/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3275643734526525621&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3275643734526525621'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3275643734526525621'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/this-articles-continues-from-first-part.html' title='Love signs! (part II)'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-3911660293412778579</id><published>2008-10-17T11:53:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:10:10.632+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love and relationship'/><title type='text'>how to know if someone is lying?</title><summary type='text'>Suppose that you went to a friend of yours with a fake smile on your face, and then told him that you were sad, would he believe you?  No, he would never believe you because he can see the smile on your face; in other words, he has noticed the inconsistency between what you are saying and your facial expression. You might think "Nobody smiles when appearing to be sad” and you'd be right on that, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/3911660293412778579/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=3911660293412778579&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3911660293412778579'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/3911660293412778579'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/how-to-know-if-someone-is-lying.html' title='how to know if someone is lying?'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-5946012469176468103</id><published>2008-10-17T11:35:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-05T17:10:10.632+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love and relationship'/><title type='text'>Love signs!</title><summary type='text'>If someone loves you or if he/she is extremely interested in you most probably they won't tell you directly until they make sure of your emotions. But behind the scenes their subconscious will keep sending you signals without them even noticing that they're actually doing so.  All what I am going to do is tell you about those unconscious signs so that you could use them to know whether someone </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/5946012469176468103/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=5946012469176468103&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5946012469176468103'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/5946012469176468103'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/if-someone-loves-you-or-if-heshe-is.html' title='Love signs!'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5542516215335248378.post-7495890839191085999</id><published>2008-10-17T11:22:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-11-09T22:02:53.535+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Myself'/><title type='text'>welcome!</title><summary type='text'>I'm not gonna update my old blog, after having little trouble with the so called HTML code. huh! people told me reading that codes as easy as reading an ABC book. but i didn't find it true.. experimenting too much now cost me. there are a lot of tips in that blog that i found really useful, for anyone to practice. so i'm gonna re-post it again here,(only selected) so new readers will not left </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/feeds/7495890839191085999/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5542516215335248378&amp;postID=7495890839191085999&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7495890839191085999'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5542516215335248378/posts/default/7495890839191085999'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://hardlifesimplemind.blogspot.com/2008/10/welcome.html' title='welcome!'/><author><name>headed to nowhere</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06683558926918205159</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_9Ypt_MEqUdg/SOvRvGdQ5mI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cX7N_qW1lrU/S220/aku.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
